Finding Balance in Chaos: A Mom’s Holiday Reflection

Are you more of a night or morning person?

I’m definitely a morning person. I thrive in the early hours, often rising before the sun—and trying to sneak in a few moments before my kids wake up. Mornings are when I feel most motivated and productive; I can tackle tasks with energy and focus.


By the afternoon, that energy tends to fizzle out, and I find myself ready to wind down. I’m not one to stay up late—unless I’m completely engrossed in a book I just can’t put down. For the most part, I love the rhythm of early mornings and early nights—it just works for me.

I’ll be honest—between the holidays this year and my toddler in his chaotic “terrible twos,” I’m exhausted. I recently started working as a substitute teacher, and navigating this new chapter while managing daily life has left me feeling like a burnt-out mom. I’m doing my best to survive the holidays while also trying to find moments to refill my own cup.

I’m in a season of saying no—especially to anything that doesn’t help me show up as my best self. I’ve realized that protecting my time and energy isn’t selfish; it’s essential for me to thrive, both as a mom and as a person.

This holiday season, I’m learning to honor my own rhythm, set boundaries, and focus on what truly matters. Some days I rise before the sun, some days I barely make it out of bed—but I’m learning that giving myself grace, protecting my energy, and saying no when I need to isn’t just okay—it’s necessary. Here’s to surviving the chaos, cherishing the little moments, and finding space to refill our cups along the way.

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